Bit of background - OH moved out at the end of April as he was spending large amounts of time with a female friend and was putting her above me. She was round his new flat on Saturday (he has moved just down the road) and I sent him a text saying enjoy your night with her - you can not hurt me anymore because we are over. He sent a text back saying get over it - she is just a mate. So I replied saying my friend (male) would be popping around. He said fine but obviously it is not fine judging by his horrified reaction today.
I know I shouldn't be but I am glad that he is feeling so bad - he has been carrying on for months (since Christmas), visiting her 2 or 3 times a week and I am glad that he is now feeling a tiny bit like I have been feeling for the last 6 months. I now feel like he can't hurt me anymore because he has already done so much harm to me - hopefully it will be onwards and upwards...