Sorry if this is long but feel I'm at breaking point and don't know what to do. Me and DH been together only 4 years have a 6 month old. We had some issues before DD was born but towards the end of pregnancy and for a while after I felt happy with our little family but things have slipped back to how they were before but worse now. On Tuesday night I told him it was over I had enough. Early Wednesday morning his phone wouldn't stop going off and I'm ashamed to admit through my own paranoia I looked. While I felt devastated that it was over he had got in contact with someone he hasn't spoken to in years and was asking him to get a girl called Alli to add him on FB. The guy answered giving DH her email address but DH asked again for her to add him on FB. I came clean and asked DH why he had to talk to her while our marriage was falling apart. He said he didn't know, he wasn't interested in her he just didn't know why he thought of her. I kept thinking the worst until the next day he said she works for a recruitment agency and he thought she could get him a better job. I checked it out and she does work there but he couldn't explain why he lied and now I feel that on top of everything I now don't trust him. It's not what he lied about, just that he lied despite promising he never would. He wants us to work things out but I really don't know if I can get over it all as well as lying.