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Match.com emails

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FTS123 · 15/06/2014 08:01

I've just gone back onto match and had a few emails....I'm not interested in any if them but feel rude not replying. What's a nice way to let them down gently? Or should I just ignore? I sent one yesterday to someone I thought was lovely but had no reply, so maybe ignoring is the way it's done?! Any OLdaters with any advice?? Grin

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FolkGirl · 15/06/2014 08:26

If the message contains txt spk, calls you 'babe', 'hun', 'gorgeous' or 'sexy' etc - just ignore.

If it's from someone who has clearly read your profile and seems genuinely interested - a polite thanks, but no thanks.

If it's from someone who is outside of your search parameters - ignore

Unless they have acknowledged they're outside your search parameters and have explained why they contacted you (e.g. you have a shared interest) - a polite thanks, but no thanks..

I suppose it depends how many emails you get. I didn't get loads on Match, but I chatted with and met up with most of the men I did chat to to any degree. But that's because my photos weren't sexy and my profile was really honest. I knew I was going to limit the number of men who contacted me, but that's what I wanted to do.

FTS123 · 15/06/2014 08:50

Thanks folkgirl that's helpful...I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings!!

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Chaseface · 15/06/2014 15:57

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