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What happened with the OP who's husband was sent a "thanks, I couldn't tell my dad" email?

17 replies

Smilesandpiles · 14/06/2014 17:14

Just that really, I dodn't want to leave the title half finished.

How is she?

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Smilesandpiles · 14/06/2014 17:14

didn't.

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Notnastypasty · 14/06/2014 17:21

I think it was the op's friends husband that got sent it.

kalidanger · 14/06/2014 18:38

Oh yes. Mid life crisis deflation Grin

Itsfab · 14/06/2014 20:10

What's this?

Walkacrossthesand · 14/06/2014 20:17

At the moment it's on p8, 'funniest MLC t(e)xt ever!!'.

HTH!

Itsfab · 14/06/2014 20:50

thank you Cake.

Bogeyface · 14/06/2014 21:40

It was me that posted!

She is leaving him but needs to get all her ducks in a row first. Funny really because all of us have thought he was a wanker for years but it was his reaction to the email that caused her to realise how he was using her. The secret email accounts, the texts, at least one secret phone, probably affairs somehow didnt do it, odd really.

He was doing classic MLC stuff and clearly thought he was on a winner with this girl, then she sent that. He was all over his wife like a rash and offering her holidays etc but was also in an utterly foul mood. She has (finally) realised that he is staying only as long as it takes him to find some young girl daft enough. So she is taking his choice away. At the moment she is being very clever and sorting out some major finances so he cant screw her over, which he undoubtedly would given half a chance. She is getting control of her inheritance which went into "our" savings, under his name which he wouldnt let her touch. Thats whats taking the time but once she has it she will be out of there so fast his head will spin!

:)

kalidanger · 14/06/2014 22:02

Nice one Bogey, good for her :)

Smilesandpiles · 15/06/2014 10:44

God for her!

Thank you. I was wondering how it was going on.

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Smilesandpiles · 15/06/2014 10:44

Good not god.

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DustBunnyFarmer · 15/06/2014 12:23

Sounds like her inheritance went into his not-very-transparent private leg over fund. Hope he hasn't blown it all wining and dining young women.

AnotherSpinningFuckingRainbow · 15/06/2014 12:33

Can I have a link to original thread please? Nosy alert!

KillmeNow · 15/06/2014 15:38

Funniest MLC text ever

AnotherSpinningFuckingRainbow · 15/06/2014 16:34

Oh that is good! Well played.

Bogeyface · 15/06/2014 17:39

Dust It is still there but she suspects that he would have used it for his new life when he found someone to waltz off with. I cant tell you how relieved we all are that she has finally seen the light and is ditching him.

Walkacrossthesand · 15/06/2014 17:49

Not wanting to rain on anyone's parade, but once the inheritance has gone into a 'family' account (and even if it were in her name only all along), she's not allowed to keep it separate from the assets on divorce, is she? Or is it more a question of protecting it from him spending it all in a rush when he realises it's game over?

Bogeyface · 15/06/2014 21:50

Its to stop it disappearing, along with all his other money and assets. He is very sneaky, she only just found out exactly how much money they have in savings, it is waaaay more than she thought, far more than double her inheritance so actually he will have to give her more on divorce. She has proof of it thankfully so he cant suddenly move it and claim innocence.

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