Or where to put this.
My db split from his partner over 2 years ago, after years of emotional abuse from her. The manipulating has continued, he's had legal advice re access to his ds, which was not to take her to court as it would make things worse and just put up with the shot he takes from her. Anyway, he's just started a new relationship, and ex has found out. She says he has to choose between gf or ds, and that she is devastated he's started a new relationship when theirs isn't over ( did I mention the 2 years??)
She's contacted my mum, who has anxiety and depression and said she would visit her with ds tonight. Mum couldn't/wouldn't say no. I've just called my mum and she is still there, and my mum is in tears.
I don't live close, db is an hour away from her and working. I'm worried about her. What do I do??