Arguing about me going out

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Dh and I always seem to be arguing at the moment about me going out in the evening. I have quite a few groups of friends ie work, baby club, school and it seems to be a really busy time for socialising. This has meant that recently I have had invites to go out at least once or twice a week for the last few weeks. I always ensure it doesn't inconvenience dh (so check first whether he has plans) but dh is getting annoyed with it.

I think he is feeling a bit hurt that I would prefer to spend time with friends, but if I was at home we would just be watching tv. He doesn't go out with friends at all but does go to the gym around 3 early evenings a week.

He hasn't said I can't go out but always moans and groans when I mention something. And will put in a few snide remarks for good measure.

Am I going out you much? Really?

Thank you to everyone for your concern but I'm most definitely not being abused in any way.

I was recorded for sleep study purposes and now I've been diagnosed with a sleeping disorder. I'm the one who said it was mean. It's like my voice goes demonic and all he's doing is rotating. I don't remember it when I do it.

Carry on :)

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It's not your fault that he decides to stay in and watch tv. If he decided to go out a bit more would you have a problem with that? Im guessing you wouldn't.

He doesn't "own" you OP.

I know what I'd tell him.