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Pregnant and dumped update

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Londonfirsttime2014 · 07/06/2014 05:31

I posted a while back about my husband who decided he didn't want to be in a relationship anymore even though he knew I was pregnant. He completely shut me off for months and told me there was no chance of use being back together. Recently it seems like he has come to his senses and wants to give things another go.... I am however very hesitant given how he had treated me during this pregnant. I still feel completely betrayed by him and don't really know if I even want to be with him again. I feel like I am back to being confused again as I don't really understand his motivation for wanting to get back together again. Should I even allow him room in my life anymore? How do you practically build a relationship again? Should I really try for the sake of the baby even know I know my feelings for him have changed? Loads of questions I know but trust me nothing compared to what's going on in my mind.

Just really confused

OP posts:
sofluffyamgonnadie · 07/06/2014 12:12

Once upon a lifetime ago, my ex did this to me, 3 days before dc was born. Maybe I'm just hard hearted, (or had seen the impact the same kind of behaviour had had on someone else I knew. The mistrust, the rows, the accusations etc. not a pretty sight.) but to me there was no way back.

When he walked, that was it as far as I was concerned, he'd totally destroyed our relationship, and there was no way I was going to spend the rest of my life looking over my shoulder waiting for him to piss off again.

Wishing you luck op x

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