Would you tell?

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I've been talking to a man from a dating site for a little while with the plan to meet soon. He claimed not to have facebook but lo and behold a quick search has shown me that he is married. Would you let his wife know he is online looking for other women?

Yeah! Definitely. Nothing to lose for you, and if I were her is want to know. Send her a link to his page and a screenshot of your emails.

I would feel compelled to do so, though it is not your responsibility. In my opinion, it seems like the right thing to do, and I would want to know if I was his wife. Perhaps screenshot the dating site profile, then message it to the woman - I would use a fake facebook profile, just for safety from any potential harassment.

I totally would I'd send her a link to the site he is on too. If it was my dh I would def want someone to tell me. Be cautious though did he say he used to me married could they be old pics etc x

Ive done it. Poor woman

No he said he's never been married

If I was the wife I would absolutely want to know, she's probably completely oblivious. It's not the easiest thing to do but it's the right thing, good luck!

Yes I would. If it was me I'd want to know.

What a muppet though, lying over something so fundamental and easy to get caught out over.

Good for you, op.

Yes I'd want to know! You should

What an idiot! Of course you were going to do a bit of ferreting before agreeing to meet him. Poor wife but you've done the right thing.

Well done op. Keep us posted x

I would want to know. If he is following through on all of this then he is potentially putting his wife at risk.

It's the fact he was so stupid. Does he really think I wouldn't search on facebook? You'd think e would at least try and cover his tracks rather than go for the easy route of denying he has Facebook. He has two kids as well which he never mentioned of course.

She hasn't read my message yet

She may not see it if it goes in the 'other' folder.

Send her a friend request it'll go to inbox then retracted request x

I didn't realise there was an other folder

Ok done, thanks

I had this with a guy on Tinder! Found him on FB, married with 2 kids, his wife had their wedding pic as her profile pic. I didn't msg her but was tempted to. Makes me laugh, how stupid, as Tinder is based on location anyone that lived near him who was on there cld hv seen him! Durr!

fablous thing to do- wot a cock - keep us posted

Well done OP!

YES, if anyone is taking the piss out of you, you should be told.

What an idiot.

Well done OP, you've done the right thing.