OOO where do I start
I have been with childs father since 05 on and off. At present we are Off and looks like its for good this time. He is very mulpulitive and controlling behind closed doors but on the outside portrays like butter would not melt.
I have always been the breadwinner he used me for my money and accommodation for years. He pretended that he loved and cared about me I never really brought it but did the best that I could to make things work. Since I had my son he has had serious ego issues. He has always been a bum but because he has middle class parents he was always catered for by me and his parents.
When I feel pregnant he portayed that I tried to trap him to a lot of people that we knew eventhough what happens behind closed doors in the bedroom to me is private. But he ‘came’ around and was ‘there’ during the pregnancy a pain in the backside I was working to keep a roof over our heads. Even got him a job and he left it and left me to work pregnant whilst he remained unemployed.
I got on with his mum but she is just as bad as he is a probably the reason why he behaves the way he does. Our son is now 4 years of age; he makes me tries to make out that our son is perfect because of him even though he does not do a thing to help.
He’s a reasonable good looking guy and I know ‘girls’ may attract his attention but he was with me for such a long time and seems to show me the person he was ment to care about and love little respect.
Well after getting cussed by my mum for treatenting to punch me in my face. Hes gone back to his mums and not bothered to help me financially or emotionally with our boy. I work at 8 am mon – fri and asked him to help me with getting our boy to school but he didn’t bother and his family encouraged him not to bother. Its an interacial relationship don’t know if he thinks hes superior.
Fact of matter is he makes out hes a perfect father now were not together has become accustomed to not seeing son or only every other weekend. Eventhough he tried make out to the world that I stopped him from seeing him. I didn’t stop him I just don’t want my boy to be taken for a mug.
Do I miss him? Hell No. He is just smug and makes me sick. Cause all he cares about is himself. I refuse to be ‘amicable’ with him. I have tried so many times and he just laughted and abused the situation.
Just dont like the way he tries to poision my son. When i try displine boy and say dont do that he would say to boy its fine to do something thats wrong just to p1ss me off. His brother is a waste of space also gives him advise to be a bad dad just cause hes in some joke of a relationship.
The man is posioned but makes out he cares about me. I've locked him off as much as it hurts/hard and boy is now wiithout dad but the man took liberties. Just dont appeciate him going to the pub with a bunch of losers making me out to be a mum who wants to keep child away from dad. He kicked me around the head then laughed I called the cops he escaped. When they caught up with him they put in him in a cell put i dropped charges cause I didnt want him to get a criminal record nor did i need the stress. Friends have not been very good with their advise i've had to lock alot off casue were I'd been there for them in the past they werent really there for me. They just wanted me at times to go along with their fairy tale life styles and me to be in misery. Dont get me wrong we could really get on at times but his mum was a evil so and so, and he didnt have the balls to stand up to her nonsense. Perhaps cause she has a million pound house in Highgate she feels some sence of control.
Your opinions would truley be apprecaited.