tips on finding out about affairs

[MilkshakeMonkey]

I hope this doesn't come accross as a negative thread but due to my own bitter experience, I thought it would be a good idea to share how you can investigate unfaithful partners.

for example, the spotlight search function on iphones/pads. When on the home screen swipe to the right and you can search where a word has been in a text or email (even if it has been deleted). So when I put in sex on my cheating h phone, I was delivered proof!

Keystroke programmes on pcs help identify what they've been typing too.

I am not that I.T savvy, so thought if others could contribute it may help others

I think that's really helpful and others should post more useful tips. Unfortunately, I don't have any to offer. But 'never trust a word they say and watch them all the time' seems like a good principle, based on my reading in 'Relationships'.

But 'never trust a word they say and watch them all the time' seems like a good principle, based on my reading in 'Relationships'.

That's probably not a ringing endorsement of this forum. If you have feel the need to conduct your relationships along those lines do youself a favour and stay single.

oh yuk. Not for me thanks. I lost everything when my DW chose to have an affair.

However i think i still prefer that outcome than living a relationship that involves using these techniques.

I'm with the PP. If your relationship has got to the stage where you don't believe what they say, are constantly suspicious and have to play Amateur Spy to catch them with their pants down then it's probably on the rocks already. (Although I understand why some would need proof before taking action) IMHO Relationships are not a court of law so the converse principle of 'guilty until proved innocent' can be freely applied.