I split from my ExH almost 3 years ago. Recently met someone else for the first time. Found out this last week that new man basically has some of the same issues which led to the breakdown of my marriage.
It's brought back memories and feelings that I thought were long dealt with. I'm not particularly sad about the end of this short relationship or what went on in my marriage. Just a bit of all of it. How could I not see the signs again? I feel let down by myself again.
I don't even know why I'm posting. I guess I'm worried I'm destined to repeat this same cycle over and over again. It took me so long to let my guard down and pretty much feel like an idiot for doing it 