DH rocked my cosy worldview last year by falling in love with OW who I strongly suspect was playing him. He unburdened himself and vilified me in the process - bit of a classic. My detective work found evidence of maybe inappropriate friendships, married affairs website trawks, facebook fuckbuddy - all a shock, major self esteem crisis and end of our old relationship. Hard times since all round, minor improvements but so much sadness. He went out out today, came back and updated me on where he had been - out supporting a female work colleague at an event. Was annoyed by this irrationally in part - his attitude get over it, just a friend, told me to drop the pessimism, does not like living like this, life's too short, couple of other platitudes. No sympathy, understanding - basically felt like a sad, bitter, unloved sack of shit -and he added for good measure as he has done before that maybe he should leave - up to me! Vote now.