Cheating or intending to find my replacement! What do you think?

[Funlover123]

So, I was sitting on my computer and saw a screen shot of a youngish girl in I cloud stream. It looked like a profile pic of some sort. It was from p's phone and he'd been looking at it when he was home with me, as the time was on the picture! Piss taker. Anyway, I did a really dumb thing and rang him to ask who the hell it was. This gave him time to come up with something with his horrid work friend. Obviously when you find one thing usually it's the tip of the iceberg IMO.
Anyway, he told me she was a business contact from Linked in, he gave me the password and said have a look. The twunt must have forgotten that the site would show all the women he'd been viewing. There were reams and reams of all VERY attractive women that were NOTHING to do with his line of work even students. I didn't see the girl from the photo on it because I stopped looking in the end, I was so upset.
He said I'm crazy and not all there and it's a business site so what my problem. I'm lucky it's not a porn site or dating site! Hmmm, I'd like to know how he knew you could meet people on porns sites because I didn't.
Anyway what's your opinions as the gas lighting is in full force.

If you keep your ds in this abusive situation, he will learn it for himself.

The sooner he realises that his 'dad's behaviour is absolutely unacceptable the better.

Or he'll be recruited and your ds will carry on where his dad left off, abusing you initially and then battering your DIL, and busing your grandchildren.

Yep, those are the stakes. That's what'll happen in this scenario.

Unless you change things.

Very sobering Hissy.
I would have been gone already if I had a chance of getting my own place to take on. I've made enquiries and I was turned away due to my finances etc. I'm going to have another go at trying to get my own place and get over the fact that most men would leave when asked to, to prevent upheaval for ds.

PR it was on the home page people you viewed. I suppose all that doesn't matter anyway. I was just curious because it's horrible to live in the dark and not have a clue what's going on behind your back.

Thanks soo much for all the advice. I was feeling very very lonely before.

Speak to the CAB/Shelter. It may be that Housing benefit could cover your rent and he gets told to go.

You have to get his abuse of you documented. Absolute must. Or you'll not be able to prove a thing.

Call WA at your earliest convenience, they will tell you what you can do to get rid of him.

Fascinating. I'm only a free user of LinkedIn. Maybe it is different for paying users. All I get is "People you may know", "You Recently Visited" which only shows 8 people, a few other bits and pieces in the right hand column then a big, central news column which seems to include updates from lots of people I don't know.

Somewhat irrelevant given the situation you are in but just fascinated that what you saw seems so different.