Will my children be ok

[Lloyds]

I know I need to end our marriage or at least separate but I am so worried about the impact on the children. I think they will be upset despite also being upset at their dad's behaviour generally in the house. Is it selfish to end our relationship because I dislike him?

I am a name changer but it possibly wont take a rocket scientist to work out who I am.

Agree with Greensleeves.

Sorry you are going through this

I have no idea who you are, but it is still v. upsetting to read your message.

Am coming to understand hunkers wisdom per se, and if she has prior knowledge then it doubles the effect for me.

Kids present or not, no-one should be getting this dis-respect. He sounds like a VERY unhappy man, with problems he wishes to lash out at you and the children over.

But, you very probably know what you must do, and a BIG NO. Your children will be happier and admire/love you even more as the years go by.
Best wishes to you and your little ones.

It would not be selfish at all. This man sounds like an abusive bully & his behaviour will have a damaging affect on your children.
I am so sorry you are going throught this.