stbex has received a letter from his Dd (my step) who is 14 basically saying she doesn't want to see him anymore, we are separating i cant wait until he moves out and to.honest i wont miss my stepd who ive never really been close to due to her mother and grandmother not liking me. I found the letter and read it, some things are shocking like he hasn't been to parents evening, probably was one of his cover stories to me when he was meeting his prostitute, never answers her text and calls, some i have tried to encourage him in the past eg decorate her room with her, take her on holiday etc. The thing that gets me is she says i have isolated him from friends and family which is something he has done himself, he and his mother argue, she nearly ruined our holiday last year, we never get invited to anyone's house as my dh doesn't have any real friends just drinking friends, am so livid i feel like contacting her mum or grandma as i feel I'm a scapegoat when i am also a victim of his inability to have proper adult relationships, don't want this.ongoing shite to be part of my dcs world but cant do anything about it, i know its not her fault but i am so mad with her and i know he will lie and blame it all on me, when i had no idea half of things she mentioned were going on!