Please could you help to see if it's just me or these things are not right.
Been with H years had ups and downs but thats another thread, anyway about 3 months ago I decided to start my own little business from home I'm a sahm, obviously I'm quite occupied with that so didn't realise any change in H behaviour until funny things started happening like,
going out unplanned one Saturday night with his mate because his wife was going to a party in it self not a problem even though he hasn't done that for years then sleeping in the spare room when he came home.
Texting me on the Monday to see if he could go out with those from work which means staying in a hotel as he works 50 miles from home just because they wanted a night out.
Then after not mentioning anything about work for ages started telling me how busy they were and how he would have to work the next 3 Saturday mornings, he never works weekends.
So I thought I would have a look on his Facebook, changed his password but there was a message from a women saying she car't wait for them to play in her local pub on her birthday (he is in a band) but she put that on his Facebook page and not on the bands website.
Also over Easter he took Ds2 out for the day never asks me if I wanted to come then put photos on Facebook like he was a single Dad plus when we have a night out he tags us in the pub, hasn't done that recently in fact looking at his Facebook page you would think he was single.
Anyway after telling him about his behaviour, not that he saw anything wrong in it I got him to tell me his new password, said he changed it because he couldn't play candy crush on his phone!
So I had a look on Facebook, password was changed 3 months ago so I looked at his activity log and he has been liking all her selfie photos and statuses he also sought her out to be his friend after he played a party and she was there, he cannot seem to understand why I am upset. Please advise