I have a friend whom I've known, 12 years. I'm 31 now and shes 30.
In those 12 years, friend has shown signs of Major competativeness, controlling behaviour, jealously whenever the attention isnt on her.
She has to be better at everything, have better stuff.
She likes to be the centre of my attention, she gets rather annoyed if she isnt, say if a new person has entered my life. She got quite jealous over this, and tried to put a downer on it.
She would try and tell me off in my own home, she had to control when we went to bed, if she stayed over.
She would try and take over parenting over my DD, telling her off for anything.
Expect lifts if we ever met up, she doesnt drive I do.
I have a new hobby and she was slagging it off to another friend.
The most recent event is, she let me use her netflix account, someone messed with it, meaning she was getting charged more.
She asked me if I did it, I didnt (her brother uses it too), and I told her that. 4 weeks later she tells my closest friend that she is convinced I did it, but still came and stayed over my house for a girls evening. Then she forgot her keys, so I had to drive to hers to give them to her, leaving me out of pocket, she didnt even offer me petrol money.
She seems to have dropped me slightly in favour of new people, we havent spoken in nearly 2 weeks and i dont even miss her.
Is the friendship done?