I've been married for a year and a half now and my ds is 10 months old. At first before we was married my dh was very affectionate and always said kind things, now it's like I'm invisible.. We would never do anything sexually if it wasn't for me starting it he's just never interested so we're rarely do anything. I feel like I'm just the cook/cleaner/ babysitter. He works long hours (about 9am till 7:30/8pm) so he's gone all day so I never want to bother him when he gets back incase he's tired but I do often say I feel irrelevant and he doesn't say anything. Whenever I ask to go out on a date night without ds (once a month or less) my dh says 'if u want I don't mind' like he couldn't care less whether we went or not. It's really getting me down how diss interested he seems :( I feel Lonely even when were in bed and I go for a cuddle with him he's sitting on his phone and when I say your being anti social lets cuddle he still sits playing on it till I get fed up and turn over and even then he stays on it till i go to sleep. He moans about everything nothing's ever right for him but he does support me and ds financially he pays for everything so I feel like I can't say too much. What would u do?