So I posted a couple of days ago about meeting a guy I'd been chatting with online for about a month. He eventually got in contact and we arranged times and such for Friday evening as I was working in his city and staying over.
He came to meet me after he'd finished work, about 9pm. And that's where my mistake comes in.. I invited him to meet me at the hotel- not the bar, but my room. He came up, we made idle chit chat literally long enough for him to remove his shoes and then we fell into bed. An hour later he left and I fell asleep.
I was travelling most of yesterday, but did pop him a text saying it had been nice to meet him and that I hoped he was having a nice day. He came back to me and asked if I'd enjoyed myself, asked how I was etc.
The majority of our conversations prior to Friday have happened in the evenings after we finish work, last night nothing. This morning nothing. I'm fighting with myself not to message him our usual 'good morning you, have a nice day' type thing as I'm sensible enough to know he's probably not going to speak to me again... but how did I let this happen? I feel a bit deflated as I thought we'd maybe meet for dinner or something but evidently he was only in it to get his end away.
Has anyone else had experience of ONS and how to handle the crazy feelings afterwards? Is there any way I could salvage what I've evidently messed up?