Ive been seeing this guy I met online since January. Im 35 just out of a 10 year marriage, dont want a proper relationship, dont want to introduce someone to my two kids, Ive been very happy with what Im doing with this guy which is basically he comes to my house when the kids are at their dads, we have wonderful sex all night, then he leaves the next day. We text every couple of days, and see each other once a week/fortnight I cant imagine ever introducing him to the kids, I dont want to meet his mates, go out for couply meals etc, Im just happy with having very nice sex. Also hes 28, lives at home, has been very clear that hes a bit freaked out that I have kids. I know that Im never going to have a serious relationship with him, but after being married for ages I really dont want one.
But, I think about him a lot, I do really like him and I got drunk last time we met and told him that it was more than just sex for me and I really liked him, he just went quiet and came up with something very non committal about caring about me it was a bit awkward and I changed the subject and didnt mention it again.. I cant work out if hes just a man who cant talk about his feelings, or am I deluded and hes clearly only interested in the sex, would it be a bad idea to have an exclusivity talk with him will I just scare him off, one day I think I should just end it before I get hurt and other times I think I need to have a proper conversation about where its going, but without freaking him out and being all needy. What shall I do??