I've been married for 8 years, have 2 sons but don't know how much more I can stand of my husband.
I could sit and make a list of all the things that annoy me but I would be sat here all day.
He's unrealiable he gets a job and can't stick at it starts off ok but give it a few weeks months if lucky and he starts turning up late phoning in sick or coming home moody.
He's always late, my dad has lots of hospital trips and sometimes if for e.g my dad has eye drops and can't get bus will ask DH if he can pick him up but my husband is late and let's him down too,
He's awful with money had none when we married but I had some savings thinks nothing of for e.g writing a car off and "just getting another"
he's done things behind my back I won't go into but its cost us dearly money wise.
He loves the boys but doesn't do anything for them, won't take them out, once a week I try to take them to a soft play area and I've given up asking him to come because he sits there with a long face saying he's tired.
I've thought many times of leaving because I feel like a single mother with a lodger as it is but I don't know where to start, I have even opened a bank account he doesn't know about and been putting small amounts of money in.