I split up with H at the beginning of December having found photo evidence of him wearing womens underwear with someone else's foot in the photo. It really is the stuff of nightmares. He also had a massive porn problem which I suspect he had had for years.
He's just dropped DD (3.5) off and put her to bed and then starts asking about divorce and giving me shit about just how hard his life is and how he is going to be doing me a favour in the financial settlement and so on.
At this point I remind him the reason as to why we are divorcing and trying to explain that he is not the only one struggling on a daily basis.... I am a trainer and rely heavily on family help for child care when working etc and whilst at the moment, money is okay actually I struggle daily with the massive betrayal by someone who purported to love me.
He stomps off telling me this conversation ends here as he will say something that will hurt me. I did retaliate by saying that it was always my fault wasn't it 
But why, oh why, do I go down this past as I am now sat here feeling really shit. I knew this would end like this but I am so fucking sick of listening to his woe is me bull shit when he is the one who saw fit to go and find someone to put him in frilly knickers to give him a thrill. I suspect he paid too but that's another story......
I just needed to get all this out of my head. What he does and says should no longer affect me as he no loungers features in my life other than as DDs Dad.
Rant over 