I have been dating my Girlfriend for 1 year, have met eachothers familys, 100% trust each other. One or 2 arguments but we are stronger than ever at the moment.
I have recently come out as being gay in work and am happy with the relationship and my sexuality - this is not my first girlfriend.
Neither of us has any children but we definitely see a future together.
At the beginning of our relationship it felt amazing (still does), everything has been great and I have never felt like this before. I saw a future with her from very early on.
Anyway, this is my predicament.
I am currently living in a "single persons 1 bedroom flat" in a very rough area in a busy town centre. We have talked about moving in together and she was prepared to move into mine in the next few months.
However, she has been offered a much bigger flat with her local council in a rural, beautiful village which I love.
She has asked me to move in with her in the bigger flat. Its not far from where she lives now and about 30 minutes drive to her work. To get to my work it would be a hellish commute, having to leave the house an hour and a half earlier than I usually would with an hour long bus ride.
She is worried that I am getting the rough end of the deal (I don't drive) and feels guilty but feels it is too good an opportunity to miss out on.
WWYD?
Would you make the transition, move to a much nicer place and start a life with the woman you love? Leave your flat behind? Crappy commute but learn to drive.
My financial situation would improve a lot by moving and obviously - I'd be starting a new life.
I am very up for the idea of moving but every now and again I get a little pang of nervousness....what if it all goes wrong, where will I live?
Ranting I guess.
WWYD?