name changer here for the obvious reasons. Married for 8 years. 2 kids together 2 of mine from previous relationship.
Emigrated a few years ago. Husband has always smoked pot. Ive always known. In the beginning it was a once every now and then thing. Fine I had no problem with that it was away from kids.
Over past 2 years Its become a problem. He worked in an industry with drug testing and was smoking what started off every weekend and has become every day. Fuck knows how he was cheating the testing. I have been asking him to stop for ages. In fact he did he was vile the first week but then okay but after 6 weeks he had just one and we were right back to the start.
It came to a head when he failed a test and lost his job. I didnt say I told you so but hell I wanted too. His smoking got worse 1/4 a week. We survived 2 months and nothing but somehow he still found money to smoke.
he found another job and promised to wean off it cutting down to weekends to start only he hasnt hes still having at least 3 joints a day and I cannot do it anymore.