Hi,
I am new to Mums Net and this is my first post. I have been with my husband for 13 years and have two amazing kids. I m looking to hear from anybody who is currently experiencing their once loving, caring husband who you thought you had an amazing marriage with suddenly turning into a complete stranger overnight after hitting 40.
Out of the blue one day in January he told me "he loved me but wasn't sure he was in love with me" then in the next breath admitted to seeing and having deep feelings for someone at work. He ended his emotional affair after admitting it but I asked him to leave. He begged to come back which I let him then he left again. I have gone through almost 4 months of hell as now he doesn't know what he wants from life and isn't sure if he wants to come home or not. Last Wednesday he ended our marriage for good. He has changed everything about himself, the way he dresses, thinks, his values, everything. To the extent our 10 year old says he feels his dad is a stranger. Our hearts are broken. I feel like part of me is missing. I would be really grateful to know that I am not alone.