This is going to be a little confusing because i cant/don't want to share details as i am still processing it all. Up until saturday night i was in a happy marriage of 17 years we have 3 school age children, a home with a mortgage and our lives and finances are intertwined as you would expect, then on saturday night something happened and now i feel i cant live with him anymore i cant bear to even look at him, he knows he was wrong because he hasn't tried to ask why i am behaving this way i barely speak 2words to him. My question is can i survive on my own? I am self employed and earn little he is the majority bread winner i don't think i could afford to take on the house and 3children (children not optional they will be with me regardless). Then i need to ask him to leave at the moment he works shift and is doing lots of over time so hardly here.....do i carry on like this until the children are older or at least until my daughter has finished her gcse (july). It all feels a bit scary and i cant speak to my family as they will want to know details i am not ready to share. I don't expect any answers from you guys i think i just needed to write it all down try and get it all straight in my mind.