So, as per there's this guy... he's 5 years younger than me, he's 25 and I'll be 30 in a few months. He's held a mahoosive torch for me since he was 19, but I've always seriously battered him away. He's always texted, almost begging me for dates, but because he's always come across as far too keen I've always said no.
I bumped into him last week by accident, we got to talking, and he asked me out on a date (again), however, this time I said yes, thinking 'why not?'
The date comes, and it appears to go really well, I was shocked at what we had in common etc, and there was a lot of hand holding, and kissing. He asked me if I liked him, and I said, yes actually I do... So, the date ends, I have that n'aww good date dreamy feeling and off I go home.
The next day the little head fuck says to me, I've spooked him by saying I like him?!?! He's said he's not sure what he wants etc, and he needs time to think about things. I then point out that we've only had one date, and he's pretty much hounded me for years.
He's still kept in contact, some days begging for me to come over, or wanting to know what I'm doing etc.
Last night I went out, and he said have a good time etc. This morning, he's bloody blocked me on facebook, and the tried to carry on a normal text conversation. I've asked him why would he block me, he's lied and said 'Oh, I've had problems with my ex so I've come off'. So, I've got rather fed up of the crap, and sent him a message along the lines of, why would you hound me, then block me.
Now for the cringy bit...After I'd sent my 'don't contact me again message', I picked up my phone to call my friend, was merrily listening to it cal out, and then bloody realised that it was actually calling him...!! I now want to crawl under a rock and die!!
The main question is, why would he go to all the trouble to get a date and then blow me off? I do know he only split with his gf at Xmas, but still, it's no way to behave??