dh driving me crackers

[alexsmilitantmum]

dh and i normally have a great relationship.he's my best friend and i really enjoy being with him but oh my god he is driving me mad at the moment.he is biting my head off over every little thing, being really uppity and picking a row over inconsequential matters.everything is my fault and i should be doing something about it.

and when he's not being a git he's cuddling up and wondering why i don't feel like being 'wifely' with him( ahem..)

help me not run upstairs and smack him one in his sleep.

give him a virtual whack on here

i think it it is because he has been off work for 2 weeks and i'm annoying HIM.
probably.

but he is being a real git.

mine gets fed up being at home, he was off a for a couple of weeks and got so fed up with it, i thought 'thanks alot now you know how i feel!'

how am i going to get through the weekend without it blowing up into a god almighty row? because all joking aside he is pushing me to my limit.

bump?

can you go out somewhere tomorrow, change of scenery?

we have been out and about quite a bit.
if i go out on my own the i will get grief for expecting him to take charge of the children.

alexsmilitant mum - are you me? You sound EXACTLY like me and my dh. I just pulled up the relationship thread to basically post the same thing. I'm at my wits end with him. I love him so much but really at the moment I could pack my bags and go (taking the children with me of course) and he's doing exactly the same as your dh, expecting to get his end away in bed (yeah right) and you should see the tantrums when he doesn't. Actually we have periods of being ok (a few hours!) like during the evening but that's usually because we're watching tv and not talking or arguing about sex. How do you fix wobbly relationships?

sorry we are fine again this morning.
told him this morning i wanted to have a whole day with no arguing and we have been having a laugh. he had an asthma attack last night which scared me-life is too short to be bickering.