Would you feel odd..........

[Blushingm]

If your dh confided in his mum about intimate issues you and him were having?

Me and dh had an argument a couple of weeks ago and he went over to see his mum. Apparently he was crying and told her about some issues we e been having. Dh sometimes can't get hard or if he doesit doesn't last at all. It's been going on years - I've tried being supportive buts it's starting to just feel like he doesn't fancy me or find me attractive at all .

I was over at mil the other day and she started trying to discuss it with me - I just felt that dh shouldn't discuss something so intimate with her and she shouldn't have tried to discuss it with me

Or am I just being prudish??????

If he feels comfortable talking to his mum about it then fine. It's his choice and he obviously felt the need to discuss it.

His mum shouldn't have spoken to you about it though. She's overstepping the mark there. Unless of course, he asked her to.

hmmm dunno, don't think I'd be very happy about him telling his mum about our sex life/lack of/any issues relating to it.

this is the kind of thing you speak to your GP about, not your mum. He's an adult now and this is a medical problem, is his mum a GP? Has he seen a GP?

agree with you, his DM shouldn't have tried to discuss it with you either. It's a private matter between the two of you (and a GP if necessary for medical reasons), not his mum.

Incidentally, how would he feel if you'd spoken with your mum about intimate issues and your mum approached him about it?