I am 15 weeks pregnant with my second child. During my first pregnancy, an old "friend" of my baby's father was body shaming me. He would compare my growing body to that of a whale, manatee, and a hippo. He would insult me in other ways and say i ruined his friendship with my partner. Then after the baby came, he tried to force his way into our life. He would try every weekend to 'crash' at our place. (while i am caring for my child, he would invade our space!) My partner did little about it. This cause major problems for my child's father and I.
Things came to a head one day and I told the dickbag to get out of my house.
It has been almost two years and this person is harassing me again as i am pregnant with my second child. He has "jokingly" threatened me with physical violence and is again trying to go out of his way to cause stress to me and my unborn child. Almost all mutual friends between me and this guy have been impartial in the matter. It is as if no one has the gumption to tell this guy he should go to hell. What he is doing is downright evil. To try to harm an unborn child is despicable. It makes me feel very depressed to feel so alone in this. No one has stepped up to try to help me in the situation.