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He such a whiner!

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julezboo · 23/08/2006 09:01

and not in a rude way!

My dp, is normally the best partner ever, looks after me very well, treats me right etc...

But lately, all he does is whine, fish for compliments and talk about sex! Alls I ever hear is how much I never initiate cuddles and kisses (I do) How we never have sex (Ive been on pelvic rest for threatened mc for 10 weeks) So not my fault and Ive been totally honest and told him Im too exhausted/sick to do anything like that.

He has horribly high blood pressure, been told to change his diet, walk more and quit smoking, he wont do any, Im worried sick about this, but apparently I only say so because I want to cause an argument, not because i care about him and dont want to lose him.

He's always making comments like "I dont care", "we just cant be arsed with each other anymore", things that really make me feel like hes only staying with me because Im pg.

Hes constantly moody and taking it out on me, whinges that we dont spend time togther, when every night i put a film on in bed suggest we watch it, i watch it, he ends up on the laptop. Usually till around midnight, by then Im asleep and i get moaned at for not staying up late, I really cant win, last night i made the effort to cuddle him, he moved down to the bottom of the bed and said "I dont feel like cuddles" WTF!!! I dont know what to do, im fed up of his moaning- he says i do nothing for our relationship when I clearly am the one doing all the work.

He doesnt seem interested in our pregnancym doesnt seem excited, tells me hes sick of me me complaining about how Im sick.tired or in pain!!

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TitianRed · 23/08/2006 09:05

Do you think he's feeling pushed out because of the pregnancy? It sounds like a very immature reaction to me. Perhaps he just needs time to get used to the idea. Just keep on being yourself and don't go over the top trying to do things to keep him happy - he's reacting like a spoilt brat, to be frank. Good luck!

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