Love is in the air....please tell me your view

[Hormonalhell]

Well I think I'm in love. Met a guy online after almost two years online dating and many many dates later. He just ticks all my boxes and I just feel like he's the other half of me.

How would you define your love for your OH?

No poppet not divorced. Her man live with her now so don't think they'll get back together.

Oh god I'm worried now, he has said he doesn't want to hurt me n scared I'll hurt him

I would be very wary. My boyfriend did this - got with someone weeks after his marriage (8 year relationship) ended. It accelerates quickly - they were loving together by the time he'd split a year I think, married, and then divorced as it all went wrong when he realised it was a rebound thing. He spent a long (to him) year single before dating again, and its made him a better person (his family all say so) and our subsequent relationship strong. If you're proclaiming love, you've been dating a month or so I guess, which means he had about eight weeks alone after fifteen years of marraige? I would be very very wary of that.

I don't think you necessarily have to worry, but certainly don't let yourself fall without a safety net.
Enjoy the company, enjoy the time together and just see where it's going.

Definitely don't start building up fantasies of a joint life, not just yet anyway.

Thanks for your posts guys, it does help me bring things into perspective a bit. He has said he wants to take things slow from start and said he will be honest with me if things not right. Just have to bring myself down to earth a bit I think