urgent advice please dont judge xxxx

[danibear123]

Hi try cut this as short as i can my baby boy is 6 months me and father split shortly after birth a moved bk home to scotland he lives england for past three months hes been up every week spending time with our boy and is looking to get place up here to be in his life daily today he has took our boy down to england too see the family fr few days frst time being without my boy so its horrible but just to my revealation he told me he has new gf even though has been saying wel be trying again an want be family and iv just found out pregnant dontknow hw aa have the implant all a mess and av gt possible cancer diagnosis so lifes nt good main point av foned the ex in laws noones seen him or my son and a think an sithin my rights to know where and who hes with considern hes clearly lied about where hes gone help advice what to do please

Tram what an awfully spiteful post, goodness me.

OP good luck with it all, hope the mutual friends thing puts your mind at rest.

Forgettable - there are always a few on any threads where the OP isn't posting in impeccable English.

I think it's (kind of) ok to 'grammar bash' if the OP is an arse/rude or the thread is lighthearted, but when someone is upset or concerned, people who take great pains to point out the missing apostrophe, end up looking like judgy twats themselves.

Yes quite. OP is distressed and panicky so let's pick up on the grammar not offer support. Sigh.

OP there is so much going on in your life. Can you turn to someone in real life too for support? The health visitor?

Take care of yourself, I hope you got some sleep.

Hope you've heard something by now op. Chances are that he got stuck in traffic/visited a friend or just couldn't be arsed to reply.

As for the health worries, has your gp made appropriate referrals and are they offering you counselling about the pregnancy? What stage of diagnosis ate you at what for what type of cancer?

Dani - I hope everything ends up ok and your health improves and your DC returned safely (hugs).

Tram - what a totaly insensitive arse you are - not called for.

Tram, you're a tit.

OP, I hope you get some news today.

I actually genuinely cannot understand.

But I'm glad others can and can give you advice.

Good luck with everything.

good luck dani, hope you hear something from him today.

Best of luck for your operation today, OP.