How do I begin... My DSis and I fought like cats and dogs growing up - she was always the pretty/cool/rebel and I the hardworking sensible plain one. Nothing huge ever happened, just we are very different people, and when I left for uni at 18 we have only ever intermittently kept in touch. Always got on fine at family gatherings, emailed every so often, Facebook friends, but we are not that close. We are now older, she has an amazing career, lives abroad and is single with a great lifestyle. I'm married in our home town with a DH, and very happy with my job. She's outgoing and gregarious, I'm an introvert and a lot quieter.
However, I'm now pregnant, and she is suffocatingly interested in me. Wants weekly bump pics, daily updates, Skype, etc etc. While it's nice that she's interested, it's just too much. I've sent her out the scan pics, as I have to all my family who expressed an interest, but she wants every single detail of my symptoms, how I'm feeling, what names me and DH are thinking about...
I just want her to back off! I'm happy with some baby-talk, but it's never ending. Even my closest friends don't get that much info. And to be fair, it's a little dull as well. I don't feel close to her, although she is perfectly nice we are too different, and if she wasn't my sister I doubt we'd be friends.
So, I'm a bitch right? She's trying to express an interest, and is excited about the new arrival. I just want her to leave me alone, or at least message me about something other than baby chat. And I don't want to have to send her weekly bump pics. It just feels fake.