Anyone else had ridiculously BAD LUCK with MEN or is it just me!?!?!

[casey89]

Just having a little moan as I am beginning to lose faith in man kind and if I am honest feel like I am losing faith!!

I am 25, friends say I am pretty, very kind, funny, very generous and I would like to say I treat everyone with respect this is my history with guys;

First guy I dated and lost my v plates too: very keen with me at the start then as soon as I slept with him the morning after he called me a 'fucking slag' and told all out mutal friends I was 'obsessed' with him, following this got called many different horrible names, slag been the main one, ironic as he was my first at the age of 18.

First proper boyfriend: nice at first like they usually are but then put me at the bottom of his priority list, made no effort with me, didn't treat me like a girlfriend oh yeh and CHEATED and slept with another girl when he was me.

Second boyfriend: thought id hit jackpot, treated me like a princess, very generous appeared to be besotted by me, showed me all the love and affection in the world, out of the blue days after buying me engraved jewellery with our names on he dumped me, turns out I was a REBOUND and he wasn't over his ex which was my initial concern, turned against me and was rude to me after making me feel like I had done wrong.

Been on two dates since breakup. First one acted very keen and interested I quote 'will I get to meet your parents' (bit odd but whatever) and arranged to see me again, I was a bit hesitant at first as he seemed a bit too keen but when I brought it up again a few days later he ignored me and never heard from him again! Recent date was a recent post, mr arrogant rude arse acts all interested and extends the date to go to a pub then asks when I'm next free then after completely nothing!!!!!!!

It really has got me down tonight and my heart feels like it's actually sinking after this recent blow!!!! All the past guys have all been completely different personality wise so I dnt know what I am doing wrong!!!! Or whether it's me as a person?!?!

Sulky sulk sulk

Anyone else had as much bad luck as me !?!

lol no dont worry your not alone i have no luck either although praying my new fella doesnt end in disaster.

Aged 16 was with the guy i lost my virginity to he pretty much dumped me after. Then started seeing another guy who tbh was just a bit weird started to freak me out.

Stayed single 3 years started seing a guy from college but he just wasnt my type tink we were both just passing the time.

The first guy i actually felt something for and felt like we were in a proper relationship was my eldests dad, unfortunately things didnt work out once i got pregnant he freaked out and that was that basically, was devestated but knew it was for the best.

When my daughter was about 4 months i had a bit of a whirlwind romance with a guy he was gorgeous just my type had a great personality really fell for him, and was great with dd. Unfortunately he kept cheating on me and the mug that i was kept forgiving him. After found out he had got someone pregnant and had a drug habbit. Tought me to never turn a blind eye. I was really messed up cos of him, still hurts me now if i think about what happened, was other shit aswell but dont want to go into too much detail

Next guy was my other kids dad again he cheated on me, got back together for a bit but there was no trust there and tbh i dont think i loved him that way anymore.

Since then had a few casual relationships but nothing serious they have all fizzled out, either they havent wanted commitment, not liked me as much as i liked them visa versa or they have been players which i have come wise to these days.

Im now seeing someone again and touch wood its going fab, only problem is he reminds me of the 1 who broke my heart the most, looks wise, personality wise, sence of humour. Maybe thats why im attracted to him i dont know but im just praying hes not so much of a bastard