OH on webcam chat rooms

[Yingyang14]

So today went on my laptop to find sex webcam chatrooms on my internet history. Gave OH benefit of doubt open chatroom to see he has an account with them and has been on them atleast the last two days whilst I've been at work. I am just hearbroken we recently suffered a late miscarriage and I gave birth to our son at 19 weeks only 4 weeks ago. Just feel so betrayed and hurt am I over reacting or am I justified to feel hurt?

Sorry about your miscarriage. A heart breaking experience.

As for your DH, personally it would just put me off and I'd have to do a lot of cognitive dissonance to ever consider sleeping with him again.

I'm just fuming he has many female friends that I'm not comfrotable with and I don't mention it but this is just a step too far for me I am literally fuming!

What would you like to happen now OP?

Is he watching them and they watching him, or is he just posting comments? Have you got a webcam on your laptop?

I don't know I need to wait until OH gets home from work and ask him about it as want to give him a chance to explain or tell me about it. If he admits to it and it doesn't happen again I could probably move forward because it's not like he has actually slept with someone but it will put us on thin ice for a while atleast I think.

Good plan, Yingyang14 so sorry to hear of the loss of your son at 19 weeks. You are obviously going through a lot.

Sorry that sounded odd. What I meant was is he just commenting on them as a random person or are they actually interacting with him?

I only ask because I have found similar stuff on our computer but we definitely don't have a webcam.

You don't need a webcam for some of these sites. You sign up and watch the women and can talk to them too depending on what site it is. You can add money and pay for private interaction with them. Some will also do a porn show for everyone in the room regardless of membership level.

Oops should say that's if it's the type of webcam chat I'm thinking of. If it's a free chat website with webcams (and not actually a professional site) same thing but no money involved.

Either way it's not good.

Oh dear that doesn't sound supportive after a miscarriage (sorry for your loss)
My previous relationship started like this "innocent" talking/flirting, I confronted him and he made me say sorry for snooping, (yes I was brain washed) then I found out he was planning on meeting another girl "but he never" then I found out through a friend he had been seeing some other girl I stayed with him for a year even after his affair. Now 4 years laer im about to get msrried to the best guy in the whole world. And the ex? He's dead due to taken the drugs meow.
so my advice to you is how far will this chat room would have gone if you hadn't have caught him?
Stay strong don't let him pull the wool over your eyes!

Yuck, don't stand for this, he's shitting all over your relationship and probably paying girls to strip for him or god knows what else.

So sorry you've had such a hard time.

This would be a deal breaker for me. You don't have to be ok with it.

He should be holding your hand after what you've been through-not his cock!

I'd love to know how you are. Please stay strong