Will i ever get over him????

[juicy81]

please help i have got myself into a very confusing situation. I split up with DD father after 5 years of quite a abusive relationship and meet someone quite soon after although we have never really got into anything serious, at first he was very keen then it fizzled out although i still saw him. 4 months ago he said he just wanted to be friends which was fine and i at least i knew where i stood. When i started seeing someone else he wanted to start things up again and like a fool i did, i stopped seeing the other guy on the hope that this time he might give me a bit more this has now been going on for 5 weeks and i don't think he will never want a serious relationship. I don't know how to get out of this stupid situation as i cant get him out of my mind, this has been going on for 18 months and we also have the same friends. Any advice would be very helpful

you said it yourself - you don't think he will ever want a serious relationship. he probably enjoys spending time with you, but doesn't want to commit. then he sees you having fun with someone else, gets a bit jealous and ruins it for you. sounds to me like he doesn't want you, but doesn't want anyone else to have you.

i think it's time to move on. there are guys out there who will want a serious relationship with you. find one of them and waste no more time on this loser.