I think he is being economical with the truth.
I have to look at you though; why do you not want to leave?. Fear of so called failure, being on your own?.
I would not ignore your own intuition here.
Your loved one is not necessarily straight up as well as honest regarding their pal. If they have got nothing to feel guilty about concerning their emotions with regard to this person, they would certainly have absolutely no difficulty sharing with you each time they chat with them and even whatever they discussed. Meanwhile if you cannot ever obtain a direct response regarding how much they chat or maybe what they are discussing, the relationship between your loved one and this other person is probably not on the up and up.
Your loved one is spending much less time with you. On the one hand it isn't required or even good for a husband and wife to spend every waking minute together. On the other hand, in the event you observed a large reduction in the amount of time your significant other spends with you, there could be something going on with them. If all of a sudden your husband or wife is working a lot more than normal (when there is actually no urgent project) or spending time with buddies and co-workers a lot more than they used to and you are never included, it could imply they are experiencing a close relationship with another person. If the relationship was harmless, your spouse would have absolutely no issue with spending time with the both of you at the same time.
Your husband or wife is sending text messages and phoning and receiving a lot more texts and calls than they had before. They may be at home with you however their focus is actually on someone else - either they are texting, phoning or even on the computer with that other individual so significantly that it interferes with the time you two spend with each other. The occasional marathon call with someone is one thing; abruptly devoting a lot of time talking to somebody else constantly is quite another. If a man or woman is married they should not feel the need to spend so much time speaking to another, unless they are missing that emotional contact with you - which is the key element of somebody starting on an emotional affair.
These are just three emotional affair signs which can alert you as to whether or not your significant other is actually engaged in an innocent friendship versus an affair of the heart.