My dear friend - she is lovely an absolute angel, and her dp who is nice enough but he does lie to her and has been introuble in her family for sending my friends neice a rude txt message and she is only 14! but she sticks by him, she says she loves him very much, and aside from some of his issues he is a really nice guy, she has been with him on and off since she was about 14/15 with her having a relationship with another guy for a year or so when she was about 18/19ish but about a year ago he told my dp that their ds was not his, and that he would love to have another baby with df and hope it would be a boy so he could have a son of his own, i have not mentioned this to her as its not my business, but i have said about her ds doesnt look like either her or him just to see what she says and she has replied that he is like her dp's dad though and has mentioned other times that her ds gets more like dp all the time so i have no idea what the situation is, but recently my dp said her dp has now told another mutual friend and i cant help but wonder wether or not i should say something to my friend?? should i tell her? it really doesnt seem my business and even if it was it wouldnt matter at all, why should it? but if my dp was telling people things like this i would like to think my friend would tell me, if its true - she obviously doesnt want people to know, and if its not true than what the hell is he doing? im seeing her this afternoon should i tell her?