hi I had a post in dec about leaving exp. I ended up going to a refuge. the post was deleted as to manu identifying points were made.
well it has now been nearly 14weeks since I broke free.
I still have ss involvement and will do for a while yet but there is "no risks" and "no concerns". ss are involced through the past and the "unknowns"
I am still in the refuge and started my housing application.
dd1 is showing strange behaviour but im working with her about it amd starting a parenting course to help.
dd2 is a happy, cheeky little girl. she is so happy and accepts everything. she hardly cries and happy aslong as im near, there is a few people she will go to and is happy when im not around. anyone else talks to her she cries if im not near. (apart from dd1 friend dad as dd2 finds him hilarious and wont leave him alone)
both dds are growing well.
dd1 is going to her friends house for dinner tomorrow. we all went last time and this will bw the first time she has been alone. I have got to know the friends mum and she is only along the road from me so I could get her back ASAP if needed. so we have both made a friend and enjoying life.
life in a refuge is hard at times but getting used to it. Everytime im down I look how far we have come and look at how happy dds are. dd1 loves nothing more then picking her own clothes and they are mainly pink and frilly. dd1 is coming along nicely at school and "a pleasure to teach" and now a buddy for other children.
she loves school and everything about being here. she has really settled aparr from her behaviour which hopefully ill get to the bottom of it.thank you once again for all od the support I recieved 13 and a bit weeks ago. ive come a long way and still got a long way to go but I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. everyday I gwt stronger and stronger.