I've posted about my verbally abusive ex before. He texted at the weekend to say he once again didn't have his maintenance money, the usual story of 'I'll pay it in during the week' which NEVER happens. I called him on his story, it didn't add up, then he followed up with abusive and threatening texts all day, and about 30 calls, which I didn't answer. Threatening to report me to ss for witholding contact (which I hadn't said I'd do). Telling me he'd rung them and was waiting a call back (it was Saturday so I doubt it), telling me he hoped I was struggling, did I only have a child to get a bit of cash off him?, telling me to f of forever and if i got the csa onto him ''you're getting nothing,c, followed by a string of texts saying 'c*'.
Regarding the csa route, despite telling me he earnt £900 the other week, and STILL not paying his maintenance, his response? 'Bring it on, no money goes through my bank account, you'll get nothing, hahaha'.
All his hatred against the world is directed at me, and I'm absolutely sick of it, I don't deserve it.
The next day a text saying sorry, he was angry. Could i turn on dd's phone so he could speak to her, as if nothing had happened.
I am so so so sick of this idiot. She sees him most Sundays, she goes off happily, and I know it's important for her to have a relationship with her Dad, but is there anything I can do to stop this abuse of me constantly?
A friend said recently she is surprised I let her see him when he is so vile to me, but it's two separate issues isn't it? I would be punishing her by stopping her relationship with her Dad even though he is endlessly hateful to me.
Maybe I should stop it, what do people think?