Ok so me and the ex have been split up for a year after 4 years of him lying, cheating and generally being an arse. During the year apart he would often stay 3 or 4 nights a week, nothing ever happened, he makes my skin crawl, but I knew dd and ds wouldn't see him if he didn't stay over. After not seeing or hearing from him at all since Christmas I had to get in touch because I needed an op and had to find someone to look after the children. While I was in hospital my dd told me they had been to the cinema with daddy and his new gf. I'm so angry he didn't even ask if this was ok, I thought we were friends. What do you all think? Also my dd, who's 4, told me her dad didn't like her or love her,was heartbreaking, what do you say? I dont want to lie to her but she's probably right. I feel so angry that he's the one that did everything wrong in our relationship and by choosing not to be with him, we have nothing, really nothing, in a couple of weeks we have to move and I've no idea where we're gonna go, while his life is great. I feel so insignificant I thought life would be better without him but it just keeps getting worse