Yesterday dh was in bed because he had been on nights the previous night, so rather than wake him I went for a bar meal with the kids and my bf. We sat outside to eat our meal and the kids loved playin on the toys etc, a friend of ours walked past and asked if we wanted to go into town for a couple of hours, my bf managed to get a babysitter, i text dh and asked him, I KNEW he would be awake at that time and all he said was 'Remember you have to pack' (we are going on hols on sat) i got home and he was very quiet with me etc so i didn't go.
Today he went into town with our next door neighbour for a pint and a game of pool, he said he would be home for tea time, i just rang him to ask him to get a kfc for the kids as a treat and he said he is stopping out now, he was slurring his words then, so goodness knows what state he is going to be in.
Am I right in being peed off, yes he has been working hard and deserves a day off, but, if I said i would be home at a certain time and rung him to tell him i was staying out, he would go up the wall and not speak to me for ages.
Also, I CANNOT remember the last time I went out with friends into town for a drink, and also, why should i always have to be the one to pack?