why isnt life simple

[jesy]

At weekend I went out with my ex it's his birthday soon and although he asked me to the party I'd rather not go. So we went for a drink n catch up, there nothing between us and it wasn't awkward like it was about a year back.
Any way we had a great time , I went to get drinks any way came back and saw bloke I sort of blame for breaking us up which was fine but they were chatting to the bloke of pof , he recognised me my ex went to introduce us but we both said sort of know each other .
After we left my ex says this bloke likes me and he said he had mentioned me a couple times so what was I going to do
Me I haven't a clue ????

Loggle
Saw my ex at weekend as a mate bumped into this gorgeous bloke I'd been messaging off pof.whilst out
Didn't realise they knew each other so well.
Bloke off pof interested in me but I'm not sure what to do.

So why not go on a date with pof man?

If I remember right, wasn't there something about the POF man that put you off meeting him in the first place?

BTW... how did you meet your ex?

So, you broke up with man A. He now has a new girlfriend, and although you remain close friends with him, you don't get on with her.

On the weekend you met up with him for a drink. You decided not to go to his birthday party, because his new girlfriend would be there.

Whilst you were having this platonic drink with him, man B bumped in to you. By sheer coincidence. You know man B from somewhere called "POF"?

It turns out Man A and B know each other.

Man B likes you but you don't know what to do.

My question What has Man A got to do with any of this?

I'm confused too.

jesy did you post about ending it with this man because you had no money and he was paying for meals etc and you felt bad? We were all giving you ideas of what to say to him and how you could spend time with him without spending money? Was that the POF man?

Why not meet up with the POF man? What's not simple about it?

I only meet men of dating sites as I don't go out much.
I was seeing a man till recently but had doubts for a couple weeks so distanced myself n ended it.
I'd chatted to bloke B on pof but decided he was to cute to be interested in me.
Was on platonic date with friend not realising he was good mate's with Mr B
Mr B has asked me out and I want Togo

You originally said you blamed the POF man for breaking up you and your ex. Not that he was too cute to be interested.

No I did not it's to complicated I do t understand it my s elf

Men off dating sites like POF are real people. They have friends and family and may well be known to your friends and family too. It is just a way of making contact not another species.

Give bloke B a whirl and report back

Simples

Cog I think there were 3 blokes. Bloke A (ex) bloke B (POF) and bloke C ( sort of broke OP and bloke A up)

Ok
Bloke A my ex and good mate
Bloke B off pod who mate's with A
Bloke C dated for a bit but deep down no spark guess deep down looked for a reason to end it with C

Sorry I've confused ppl

( the one I blame for me n A ending is basically an irrelevant twat and nothing to do with this )

I have no idea why you can't date POF guy. Can you say why?

Because she still loves her ex?

I've just agreed to go on date with pof guy he texted and asked and well why not yeah my life a mess but sod it he cute

Don't love my ex not in that way !

Anyone else need a lie down in a dark room?

It is just a way of making contact not another species

I can see we've had very different experiences on POF Kou.

Jean

You have just made me smile !
Ppl are right I can't live my life for others need to get out n about

So a date tonight
Going to the party at weekend

It will do me good to do stuff !

Date them all?

No just bloke B

There you go then. Life is very simple when you do what you fancy, please yourself and look after #1 rather than trying to second guess everything or worry about other people's reactions.

Glad I made you smile! Hope your date goes well.

It's like reading myself, aged 15.

it's like reading a different language to me

At 15 I was too busy looking after a family with a mental health issue to go out.
Tar for the support I'll let you know how it goes well if any one interested and still awaken, it's just a drink at the sports place he goes to which is near me.