My ex fw was violent when I was pregnant and for next 3 years. Eventually I called police and he left. I took him back. I d had cancer while dd was a baby and I had a scare and I just needed him
Back.
Had no violence for the past 2 years but constant and worsening and vile
Verbal attacks. He's involved my dad, talking to him about how I am frigid, mad, extreme pmt. I posted in here in October and nearly left, bit could nt quite do it, I didn't know where to go. Then in jan he started on me again one night and then called my dad to tell him again how awful I was, something snapped and I called the police. They made him leave. He's been in hotels since then, but been back most weekends, supposed to go to his folks but always been too tired to drive. He's been back now past 4 nights and I have felt insane. I was feeling better hen he was away. He's just come in now and told me its his house and he's not wasting anymore money on hotels.
I can move to my parents. I did this initially but it meant getting dd up at 6 and driving her home fir 30 mins so I can work. She got very tired. So now I may just hae to take time off work to work out what to do, file for divorce etc.
I feel so desperate and anxious. I just cannot stand being in the same house. Even now he started in at me telling me my dad knew how evil
I was. I just don't think I can mentally take this. What can I do.