PISSED OFF AT DH!!!

[Quootiepie]

grrrrrrrrrrrr.... ive been sitting all day waiting fo DH to come home, and he said he'd go have a shower. Hes been gone ages so I popped to the bathroom, and hes tucked up in bed. I never get a bloody nap! And he didnt bother saying. He didnt even really talk to me when he got in. He never does any night time "duties" with DS, and only holds him so I can have dinner, or do something for a few minutes. He`didnt bother booking time off work for tomorrow, so this is the only time we can spend time together. Im so pissed off right now

shattered. ive been doing all the care, 24/7 for 4 1/2 months. Thats not what pisses me off most... its "the baby we never had"s "1st birthday" tomorrow, which he didnt book off, so now is the only time we have to spend together. And hes tucked up nicely in bed.

Poor you Quootiepie - you're bound to be a bit raw at the moment. Typical man, not picking up on it. Hope you feel better in a few days

not if i still have `same DH

DH still tucked up in bed

If you get any no 2 nappies, stick one under his nose, he will soon wake up.

lol. Eastenders will get him up , the ol' bag.

Quootiepie don't worry. I'm still waiting after nearly 5 yrs for my h to be more of a father

is there no decent men out there?

I asked mine to take a day off this week as the 3 children are driving me mad, he has but is going golfing instead of spending time with us. Think they have the sensitivity part of their brain neutralised on their stag night.

Sympathies to you - men are just insensitive and you'll be hypersensitive at the mo.

Big hugs, pour yourself a large glass of plonk and put DS in the same room as him to give him a rude awakening

Quootiepie think that answers your question not many . Think I'll keep looking.

he ignores DSs crying... waits for me to deal with it. Already drunk all the booze in the house!

Quootiepie, I presume you mean you had a miscarriage ? I did too, and that baby would have been 4 a few days ago.

DP has never mentioned it but I remember each year. I think I commented on it the 1st or 2nd year and he just says "oh, is it?"

We have since had a daughter and I think he thinks everything can now be forgotten because she's "replaced" the previous child.

Bloody men.

no, an abortion. Makes it all the more painful that he forgets and doesnt care.

oh hun sorry I missed the bit about the baby you never had. So hard for you, they never understand, I think because they have never felt a baby inside or the hormones or the emotions it is very hard for them, they see a baby as what is produced from your womb after you have bonded already with your child for 9 months. IMO of course. I had 2 mc and dh said to me on the way home after the first one "life goes on babe lets have a beer and forget about it." Cat me tomorrow if it gets too hard. xxxxxxxxxxx