im new to this website, but I was wandering if anyone had some advice for me....I found out my partner was asking another girl for dirty pictures about a year ago, the only reason I found out about this was because I saw the messages to her and I didnt find out until I was 3 months pregnant with his baby, I suffer with bipolar and bpd so I found this really difficult to come to terms with as I havr huge confidence and trust issues anyway and I thought my partner was different and would never do this to me so it was a HUGE shock, I am still with him now and our baby is 2 months old but im still realoy struggling and am wandering whether I can carry on this relationship, I already have a child from a previous relationship and she is 3, he tried saying he didnt tell me because he didnt want to lose me, but the thinh is he took me for dinner the same night as he messaged this girl and declared his love for me :s I just dont understand how someone could do that. I have tried to stick it out and forgive him but I really dont know if I can but the last thing I want is to ruin our familyany advice is much appreciated