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Not being told the truth - I am being harsh?

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Daffodil45 · 20/02/2014 19:39

I shall keep this to the point,but looking for some advice please,
Been with the OH for nearly 2 years, don't know their address except for the county, ( we don't live together).
All of our phone conversations are whilst they are driving and I've not met any of their family at all.
Found out last week that they had committed bigamy and that they hadn't told me, but assumed I must know as other people around us knew.
I'm totally humiliated as everyone seems to have known,except me and I don't know if I should end our relationship - I would add, had I have known I would not have gotten involved with them
Please help ??

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BitOutOfPractice · 21/02/2014 23:05

So whonicked it's all the OP's fault that her DP is a lying toad eh? Course!

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Cabrinha · 21/02/2014 23:20

I knew my boyfriend's address about a week after I met him. That is normal.
Two years is not.
Unless they're married.
HTH.
Come on! Do what you have to do - delete his number!!

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CoffeeTea103 · 21/02/2014 23:25

You've been incredibly naive. How did you allow this to go on for so long without doing anything about it. Even his excuses sound so laughable. Definitely drop him.

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Finola1step · 21/02/2014 23:37

Dafodill. I'm sorry to be harsh. He is not your OH. And you are not his. At best, you are a weekend bunk up. This is all very odd. Run for the hills.