We have 3 DCs ages 7,6 and 3. DH is a good Dad. He isn't tge most playful of dads (my own DF used to play with us loads as kids and going round my parents house now he pretty much looks after the kids while I chat to DM)
DH though is always worried about the kids behaviour. If they're not sat silently he is on their back about not upsetting their DGs/uncle/aunt/next door's cactus! They are always too loud or too raucous or something. If we're in the b park he can't let them just run about. They can't go further than 6 feet away he panics. It's exhausting as it causes endless tantrums from the kids and shouting from him. I feel as though I have 4 children sometimes. It's starting to really exhaust me.
is it me should I let go a bit and agree with him or try to get him to lighten up and let v them just be children sometimes. I don't mean I don't discipline them I do. But not when they are laughing and playing a game where they are safe and secure. He worries they are.annoying m people and that people will think they are showing he cant keep them under control.