I was with my partner for 1 and a half years although thankfully we never married, had kids or even moved in together so break up was pretty easy.
Reason for breakup was his terrible attitude to money, he was incapable of saving anything, he would get paid on the friday and it would all be spent on computer games and clothes by the saturday.
He was very immature, used to spend his time going around the streets in groups of lads in cars revving engines and 'hanging around' in car parks.
He was bossy, used to make snide comments at me about my house, my weight, my clothes and my appearance.
He was boring, relied on me to book everything that we were doing, relied on me to come up with ideas and relied on me to sort everything out.
There were loads more problems but to cut a long story short I told him I wanted to break up, he didnt want to so asked if we could just go on a break instead, he said if I give him a few months he would prove to me that he could change, said he was going to start to pay off his debts and start to save up, he was going to grow up a bit and change his attitudes.
Anyway this was 2 months ago, last week he got paid and told me he'd gone out and bought 2 ben sherman shirts, some puff daddy aftershave and loads of other silly things , he just doesnt get it at all so I told him it was over completely.
He said he wanted the chance to prove that he had changed but it seems to me that he isnt changing at all, last week he did exactly the same thing with the money situation!
Do people like this change or am I better off out of it?